Thursday, March 08, 2007

Disturbing Facts!

Its been a while since I blog.. I've read few of my friend's blog and i found this facts which i think is important for us muslims, esp us girls to know. Try not to jump into decision without even knowing the facts and laws.

well apparently its not even sah. and its worrying and disturbing news, considering how many kids nowadays are products of crash boom bang marriages. PLEASE share this with everyone! im sure everyone in brunei knws at least one couple who got married bcoz the girl got preggie.

(source : article from webkl portal)

1 : What is the correct thing to do when
girl become Pregnant outside of marriage?
: She should not marry anyone until thebaby is born.

2: Assuming the father of the child
wants to marry her,can he?
: No, he cannot marry her, until thebaby is born.

3: Is the marriage valid if they did marry?
: No, the marriage contract is invalid.
A Muslim cannot marry a pregnant woman,
even if he is the biological father.

4: If they married, what should they donow to correct it?
: They should separate. She should wait
to confirm that she is not pregnant.
They can then marry, as this will now be
a legal marriage by Islamic law.

5: What if they don't correct it?
: They will still living in a
relationship of Zina as the Marriage
contract is not valid.

6: What are the rights of thechild that was conceived>>>
Outside marriage?
: According to the scholars, the child
is not the father by Islamic law. Hence,
the child cannot inherit from the rights
as a child. The child also has no rights
over the father.

7: If you say that the father is not the
father by Islamic law, does that mean he
cannot be the mahram of his own
biological daughter?: Yes, he cannot be her mahram.

8: A Muslim man and a Muslim (orNon-Muslim)
woman decides to get married
after having lived together, how should
they go about it?
: They must separate immediately and the
woman must wait for one menstrual cycle
(to prove she is not pregnant), before
they can enter into a Marriage contract

9. If I know someone that is in this
situation, should I
tell them about what I have learnt or isit none of my business?
:It is your Islamic duty to inform them,
so they can rectify their situation,
otherwise all the children from that
relationship will be born outside an
Islamic legal marriage.Na'uzubillah..

be aware that this is a forward, someone's interview with an imam. but im no saint so if u've got any further questions, ask the local imam or ustaz or ustazah. lets pray this doesnt happen to us, our children and our future generations to come.

solution: just keep ur hands and d*cks to urselves unless that girl is legitimately and lawfully ur wife. to the girls, if he loves u, he wouldnt make u do it.

oh and another thing, there is no such thing as practising safe sex b4 marriage if ur a muslim. the only safe sex u can do is after marriage!

(an article frm rabz blog- Thanks rabz)